Bernadette Giongo and Shane 

Giongo Family Tragedy

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  On 12/16/07, Bernadette Giongo, the mother of Kennedy-Kenrick football lineman Shane Giongo (also the senior class president) died in the family's Conshohocken home. Her husband was arrested and charged with her murder. Later, fire damaged a relative's home where Shane and his younger brothers, Colin and Quinn, were staying. Colin (fifth grade) and Quinn (second) are students at Conshohocken Catholic School. Colin plays football for Our Lady of Victory, in Norristown, which combines with Conshy CS to form a team. Below is info on how to help the Giongo brothers and your expressions of support. Thank you.
  Please send to silaryt@phillynews.com.    


 
Contributions may be sent to:
Giongo Children's Fund
c/o PNC Bank
997 Allentown Road
Lansdale, PA 19446
or . . .
Giongo Family via OLV Football Conshohocken Catholic School Conshohocken, PA 19428
or . . .

Giongo Trust Fund
c/o Continental Bank
661 W. Germantown Pike
Plymouth Meeting, PA 19462
 


 L to R -- Shane, Greg Santangelo and Chris Santoro

Your Expressions of Support . . .

 Everybody at KK has your back, Shane. And many more people out there are
gonna help, too. We're ALL with you.
-- Billy
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  Shane, I have not hung out with you in a while, but I remember all those summers we spent together. You looked after my cousin Steven since he came to KK, and I thank you for that. If you need anything now, or in the future, do not hesitate to call or stop by the house.
-- Don Houck
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Moms always want to be with their children wherever they may go.  May you find peace in knowing your mom will always be with you wherever you go. 
I am blessed to have known your mom. I know you are in good hands, but if you need anything please let Mike or I know.
Love always,
-- Joanne Mastrocola
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Note from Ted . . .
  SJ Prep football players Mark Giubilato and Mike Yeager are organizing a drive to help Shane and his brothers. Thanks, guys! More info to come . . .
  QB Luke Sawick reports that McDevitt collected roughly $1,000 during the school day Friday . . .
  And Huck reports that West Catholic is hoping to organize a collection effort for Sunday's basketball game with O'Hara . . . 
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Dear Shane, Colin, and Quinn,
  I only got to know your Mom this year at KK football.  I am very glad that I did.  One thing was very evident….she adored the three of you.  Her face lit up when she talked about you.  No doubt, you brought her real joy and  were a source of great pride.   I encourage each of you not to allow this senseless tragedy to define you.  She raised each of you to be fine young men.  As you travel through this earthly life without her physically, know that she is right beside you guiding your way.  She will forever be in your hearts helping and aiding you through life and the many decisions that you will face.  I know that her light will shine bright through each of you.  You were blessed with a great Mom.  Her legacy will be each one of you.  I can think of no greater tribute.  Know that you have our full support and that you will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
May God Bless You Abundantly,
-- Jacquie Guidone and Family
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UPDATE . . . DEC. 27
  On Dec. 21, SJ Prep junior Mark Giubilato, the backup QB this past season, copied Ted on an email he sent out to players, coaches and parents connected with the Prep Football Family.
  He indicated he was touched by the Giongos' situation and felt compelled to help.
  Here is part of that email: 

  As not only leaders on the field, but also in our community, I feel that it is our responsibility to stand up in taking a most important role in helping the Giongo family during this season of giving.
  Please help in giving any gift, present, gift card, or personal check to the Giongo family.  No contribution is too small.
  When e-mailing or calling, please leave a cell number, or house address so we can pick up any possible contributions.  All are appreciated.
  Guys, again, let's show the Catholic League families why we are leaders not only on the football field, but also in our respective communities. I will send a follow up e-mail listing all contributors and what we contributed as a team.  Thank you for any help.
  Mark indicated he would be working in tandem with fellow junior Mike Yeager, a defensive back and part-time running back. (Both are expected to be headliners next season). Mark and/or his father, Mark Sr., an assistant coach at the Prep, made steady contact with Ted to provide updates on their fund-raising progress. Mark, who lives on the Main Line, and Mike, who lives in South Jersey, drove far and wide to make pickups at assorted houses/businesses.
  At about 5:30 on Dec. 27, Mark called to say he and Mike had collected close to $1,900 in cash, checks and gift cards -- and that more had been sent directly to the assorted funds mentioned at the top of this page -- and that they'd be visiting the Daily News to drop off an envelope containing everything they had. The guys came into our office and indeed dropped off the donations.
  Contact was made with K-K FB-basketball player Greg Santangelo, a close friend of Shane's. Greg said Shane would be attending K-K's basketball game at Norristown, and arrangements were made to meet Shane there.
  Ted met up at halftime with Shane and presented him with the gifts in the office of athletic director Chuck Knowles (former FB coach and AD at Conwell-Egan; Bob Davis, Chuck's assistant, was instrumental in helping to make sure everything clicked). Shane was overwhelmed. He could not believe that young men who don't even know him had gone to so much trouble to help. "This is amazing. We're from the Blue Division. We don't even play the Prep," he said, smiling. "How do these guys even know who I am?"
  Shane was honored to pose for a picture holding a thank-you sign prepared by Bob Vetrone Jr., of the DN sports department.
  Full contact info will be provided for Shane to Mark and Mike, and vice versa, so they can talk.
  This was a wonderful gesture by Mark and Mike. Thank you so much, guys.
  (Please look right below for pictures of Mark/Mike and Shane.)
 

  Mark Giubilato (L) and Mike Yeager, in a Daily News conference room, with checks/cash/gift cards they collected to help Shane Giongo and his brothers.

  Shane, after accepting the gifts in the office of Norristown athletic director Chuck Knowles.

MORE COMMENTS . . .

  Thanks to everyone who has supported these three young men in their time of need,  it has renewed my faith in the kindness of people everywhere.
-- Shane's uncle
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These next two pictures are courtesy of the Ganley family.

K-K's senior night. . . Shane and his mom at right.

Bernadette and Shane, Donna and Matt Ganley, Sandy and Geno Dayton.

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The following letter was sent out in late-season by Donna Ganley.
She said it was "inspired" by Bernadette. Thank you, Donna.

  I know we flood everyone with emails, and you answer the call each time.  Our boys have been treated well with the pasta dinners, some how it always just comes together and becomes the most appreciative meal for the team.
  Well, as this season is coming to a close, I have been asked to write you one more time to reflect upon the past 4 years for our seniors.  Those of you who are moving closer and closer to senior year, you too will find both joy and sadness as the end of the season draws near.
  Freshman year our boys stepped on to the field in August that summer; some were friends from grade school and some were total strangers.  The rivalry they experienced on the field representing their respective grade schools, now was to become one team – a high school team.  A team that would project pride, courage, and camaraderie through thick and thin, the senior boys of today immediately bonded in a friendship to last through all four years.  They immediately became one unit – a unit which stays together on and off the field.  Through each win or loss they held their heads high, they comforted each other and rejoiced with each other.  Defeat may have presented itself on the scoreboard, but defeat was not in their hearts; for each game they learned to be a little stronger and a little wiser, their dedication to the team was ever evident both on and off the field.  Their friendships formed in freshman year helped guide them to be a stronger team by senior year.
  I can remember sending my son to football camp freshman year, he already had a shaved head, but bald was now the new word to describe his head when he returned.  It was football camp that brought these boys to the everlasting friendship that exists today.  I can only tell you how rewarding it is to watch your boy on the field freshman, sophomore, and junior years and then as a senior watch how he has matured in sport and self as young man.  Tears come to my eyes just thinking about coming to the close of the season.
  As parents, we have adopted all the boys as our own, when they step on the field they become ‘MY boys’.  We cheer each one down the field, we cringe each time someone is lying on the field, and say a Hail Mary for him to get up unharmed.  I can only tell you, that it has been one fantastic experience.
  As time draws close, even though they will be going in separate directions I know these boys will remain friends through the years.  Should one or all find themselves on a college football team they will be cheering each other on to victory.  And wow, look at all the tickets they will need to secure should one go pro.
  All the games, all the pasta dinners, all the snack stand hours, the fund raising, sitting in the stands in the rain or bundled up in just about everything you own, washing those muddy uniforms, scrubbing the grass stains; every one is a memory you share with your son.  May God grant you many memories, may the four years we all experience be as rewarding for you as it has been for all of us.  May the friendships formed through a pigskin, a 100 yard field, and 2 goal posts remain forever, both for KKCHS Wolverine players and for the Wolverine Team Parents.
  I would like to say, it has been my pleasure to meet and get to know both teams.  Our boys have grown into men before our eyes, time passes so quickly, and yet I am honored to have been a part of this experience.   I hope all the underclass parents find the ‘football experience’ as fun and as rewarding as the senior parents.  We will miss you and we will continue to cheer you onto victory in our hearts. 

May God Bless you.
Go Blue, Go Gold!

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***SPECIAL NOTICE***
  Chick-fil-A in Audubon, PA., located at: 680 South Trooper Road, will be having a benefit on Saturday, January 19. Ten percent of the Total Sales for that day will be donated to the "Giongo Fund" to help pay for the future education and other needs of these three brothers.
Let's not let the giving season be over just yet. These boys need an angel. Chick-fil-A in Audubon is open for Breakfast, Lunch & Dinner from 6:30 a.m. to 10:00 p.m. Please come out and show your support for this family, and tell a friend!

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  The players, coaches and parents of Archbishop Wood Football would like to express its sympathy on the death of Bernadette Giongo, mother of varsity football player Shane Giongo.  As our teams have met each other in Catholic League Blue Division play over many years,  we are particularly saddened by this tragic loss.  Our thoughts and prayers are with Shane and the entire Kennedy-Kenrick football family.
-- Cathy Makoid
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  Please click here for Ted's Jan. 10 story on how Shane and
his brothers are going forward, with great support from many.
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  The Fellowship House, in Conshohocken, will host a "Leap of Love" for the Giongo boys on Feb. 15 and 16. It will be family oriented with fun and games for all ages. Save the dates now.
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Text Box: ~ Schedule of Events ~ 
 
Come enjoy a family oriented day                        of fun and games for all!

 

Fees for Admission to all Events on Saturday, February 16, 2008:

Family                   $25.00                            Individual    $5.00

*All participants will receive a wristband to enter the building.

T-Shirts will be available:

  $10.00 (per t-shirt)

There will be a concession stand that will be open all day.

*All registration is encouraged to be completed before Saturday, February 16, 2008.

*All forms can be picked up at the Fellowship House or you can log onto our website and download a form:  thefellowshiphouse.org (Labeled Leap of Love).

Mail all forms to:  The Fellowship House of Conshohocken

                   515 Harry Street

                   Conshohocken, PA 19428

February 15th (Friday)

 

7:00pm-10:00pm         Last Day for Registration of Events/Social/Preview Auction Items

 Come enjoy a night of food and entertainment featuring Paul Moore with his Irish Band Paddy’s Well.  Help make this night a great kick-off to the weekend for the Giongo Boys.
 Paul is a 1981 North Catholic grad. Bandmate Matt Bresica is a '95 La Salle HS product. Band's website: www.paddyswell.com

 February 16th (Saturday)

8:30am                        Registration and Pre-Walk Stretch at The Fellowship House

9:00am                        Memorial Walk kicks off with Rocky Bluewinkle of the Wilmington Blue Rocks from the Fellowship House, down to East 3rd Avenue, up Fayette Street to East 11th Ave., down Harry St. and back to The Fellowship House.

11:00am                      Team Dodgeball

                                    All Ages Welcome. Teams of 5 will be accepted. (Single Elimination)

1:00pm-2:00pm           Come hear the live entertainment by Tommy Conwell

Text Box: Come out and see 93.3 WMMR from 4pm-6pm

 

2:30pm                        Hot Shot Competition (Individual Basketball Competition)

                                    All Ages Welcome.

6:00pm                        Team Volleyball

                                    All Ages Welcome. Teams of 6 will be accepted.

8:30pm                        All Star Team vs. Conshohocken’s Finest Basketball Game

                       Auction winners will be announced. 

*There will be children’s entertainment all day (moonbounces, face painting, etc.)

If you have any further questions, please call the Fellowship House at 610-828-3266.

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***SPECIAL NOTICE***

  The Circle of Angels Beef and Beer Benefit, for the Giongo Children, will be held be held March 15, 2008, 7 p.m. to midnight, at Monsignor Delia Hall (formerly Holy Saviour Hall) in Norristown. Tickets are $25. Must be 21. For tickets or more info, call 610-955-9740 or email circleofangelsbenefit@yahoo.com.

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Posted May 19, 2008 . . .

  The organizers of the Circle of Angels Giongo Children Benefit Beef and Beer would like to express a heartfelt THANK YOU to the following who helped make our night a success:  Gallo Brothers Construction Inc., J and J Painting, Phyllis Sylvester and Crew,  John Salamone, Lorin Richter, Gretz Beer Distributor, Rich Wesselt, Coropolese Bakery, Aramark, Theresa Watkins, Joe Harte, Chuck Fehr, Brown’s Shop Rite -  East Norriton, Tom Gretchen, John Pelusi, Tony DeVincenzo, Ed Imbrogno, Josie McCabe, Mike Santillo, All the Moms who made the homemade baked goods, and the many individuals and companies who donated for our raffle items and sponsored our event. 

  To the following people who without your help and support we couldn’t have done it:  MaryBeth Light and daughter Amanda Light, Dawn Liston, Janice Cusamano, Leti Martelli and son Lenny Martelli, Kim Falco, Tim Dugan, Taylor Phifer, Sam Paolella, Greg Santangelo, John Marino, Sal Spera, Dominic Coccia, Greg Santangelo Jr., A. J. Coccia, Matt Ganley, Steve Ostrander and Shane Giongo.

  Our circle started as just five Moms wanting to help our friend’s children through a difficult time for both the present and the future.  Without your devotion to our cause to come to the aid of Shane, Colin, and Quinn our circle would not have been complete.  Each offer we received came from your heart, we shall never forget your kindness; we thank God there are still loving, caring people in the world.  May God Bless you always!
 With enormous sincerity,
  -- Rosemary Coccia, Donna Ganley, Donna Marino, Teresa Santangelo, Jodi Spera

  Donations are still being accepted for the Giongo Boys . . .
  please send to Circle of Angels,
  c/o Teresa Santangelo
  1509 New Hope St.
  Norristown, PA  19401
  For more info, contact Teresa at circleofangelsbenefit@yahoo.com.