John Hoban

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   John Hoban, a 1959 graduate (and first team All-Catholic football honoree, at
center)
who forever maintained strong ties with Roman Catholic High as a coach
and later an unsurpassed supporter of the athletic program, both at games and
behind the scenes on assorted committees, passed away June 29, 2007, of heart
problems.
   We welcome your comments and/or photos of John, and they'll be posted below.
   Please send to silaryt@phillynews.com. Thank you very much.
   The family requests donations to John Hoban Jr. Scholarship Fund, c/o Roman
Catholic HS, 301 N. Broad Street, Phila., Pa., 19107.

Contributions . . .

  The Roman Catholic Community & Alumni lost a GREAT person the other day.
We Juniata people, when connecting us to Roxborough, will always remember John
Hoban. John was a loving, outgoing individual who bled Roman Purple through his
veins. John will be deeply being missed and we will also remember his smile and
good times together. This football season just won’t be the same without him.
RIP John.
-- Paxson Family
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   What can I say..............The Catholic League will never be the same with him
passing............every sport will suffer..........He is looking down on us and already
is waiting for Aug 12 (1st day of football) and Nov 15 (1st day of basketball). Roman
has lost a legend, we have all lost a great friend. I am going to miss you John.
--Jack Rutter
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  I had the pleasure of knowing John Hoban since 1955 when he entered Roman as a Freshman.  I played with John and competed with him for the same position on the football team............Center.
  We both had the pleasure of being coached by his father, John Sr.  One of my best memories of playing together is that I was his replacement when he went down against Msgr. Bonner in September of 1957 with a terrible knee injury.  He was only a Junior at the time and he healed well to come back for the '58 season and made 1st Team All Catholic.
  He was a loved and well respected alumnus and I will surely miss him.  My hopes and prayers go out to Mary and the wonderful Hoban family.
-- Tom Kearney
Class of 1958
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  I would like to extend all my thoughts and prayers to the Hoban family at this most difficult time. The entire Roman Catholic H.S. community has lost without a doubt one of their greatest supporters and friends. John will be missed tremendously and not seeing him at Roman athletic competitions will be difficult for all who knew him.
  Personally, I only had the chance to get to know John on a friendly level during the past five or so years. I'm very grateful for that opportunity and I will miss conversing with him at Roman games. This past spring I had the pleasure to hang with John at numerous Roman baseball games. His company made covering these games so much more enjoyable.
  Not only is this a loss for the Roman community, but the entire Catholic League. John's presence was a given at Roman sporting events, but it was also common to see him at football and basketball games in the CL that didn't involve his beloved Cahillites. 
  I'll remember John as a man who had great sense of humor, as someone who didn't mince his words, was always honest, and passionate and loyal to his Cahillites. I'm sure the people who knew him best could add to this list of impressive qualities.
  Again, my thoughts and prayers are directed completely to the people who loved John the most. May God be with you at this difficult time.
  I'll miss you friend!!
-- Ed "Huck" Palmer
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 It is hard to put into words what John Hoban meant to Roman Catholic High. Hell, Mr. Hoban WAS Roman Catholic High. I met Mr. Hoban when I started at Roman in 1987. Back then he was just a guy that hung around Roman sports. I always thought that it was kinda cool that he still followed his high school team, but, as a high school kid, you don't always realize the magnitude of the things around you. After I graduated from Roman and came back to assist with the football program I got to know Mr. Hoban much better. He was such a caring man, devoted to his family, devoted to his school. I will never forget talks with him in the Henry James after a great victory or a gut wrenching defeat. I will remember how his face lit up when one of his daughters would walk in. I remember fondly him dancing with his wife at our victory party in 1999 and how the smile never seemed to leave his face. Mr. Hoban will be sorely missed by an entire community of people whose lives he touched simply by being John Hoban. I'd have never thought back in 1987 that, "just a guy who watched Roman sports" , would turn into a man that I had deep admiration for and one whom I know will never be forgotten at Broad and Vine. John Hoban made me proud to be a Cahillite. My thoughts and prayers are with Mrs. Hoban and her four daughters and their families. The spirit he showed and the life he led will go on for many years to come. Rest in peace Mr. Hoban.
-- Mike Gallagher, RCHS class of 91
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  Perhaps the greatest human being that I have ever met. He was always just a pleasure to be around. I can think of a million stories to share about Mr. Hoban in the 10 years that I knew him. One special story was without a doubt the greatest football moment of my life. It was after my last Roman Catholic football game against Roxborough. We had won the game and everybody had smiles and cheers. My Mom came over to me and said I had to go over and see Mr. Hoban because he was crying. I went over to him and he gave me a big fat hug. I asked him why was he crying when we had just won. He said "Because I'll never get to see #44 play football again for the purple and gold." No award or championship I have ever won, meant more to me than those words he told me that Thanksgiving Day. I never thought playing a game could have that much effect on somebody and it put a lot of things for me in perspective. I had recently just asked him that if that day came where I was inducted into the Roman Hall of Fame, I wanted him to introduce me. That's how much he meant to me. Our family is heartbroken for Mary, Mary Ellen, Katie, Eileen, and Theresa. We will never forget Mr. Hoban.
-- Joe McCourt '01
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  Your presence will be missed tremendously by us all......your spirit will live forever in our hearts.
-- Len DeMalto ' 76
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Our hearts are broken.  John was such a wonderful, funny man.  As the Paxsons put it - he bled Roman purple!  I am most impressed how the younger alumni & friends are reacting to his death.  These young men (Scott Paxson, Joe McCourt, Tim Mahon, Chuck Thompson) are truly shocked and saddened to hear of "Mr. Hoban's" passing.  That in itself is such a tribute to John - because he influenced them so much by being so dedicated to the school he loved.
We will miss you so much - and our thoughts and prayers are with Mary, Mary Ellen, Katie, Eileen & Terry.
-- Bernadine, Keith, Tim & Kristen Mahon
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John Hoban....unequivocally the GREATEST Cahillite of them all! No one loved Roman or was more supportive to the athletic program than John Hoban Jr.
My Friend...He will be sorely missed but NEVER forgotten.
-- Speedy Morris
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  The game of basketball has blessed my family with the opportunity to meet many terrific people. John Hoban was my Dad's assistant at Roman when I was born. I have been lucky enough to know him for my entire life! No one has been a better friend to our family than 'Hob'. You find out who your true friends are during the toughest times of your life. Whenever there was a crisis in our family, John Hoban was always the first to arrive at our house, and one of the last to leave. He was the epitome of a true friend....he was family, as is his wonderful wife Mary, and his beautiful daughters, Maryellen, Katie, Eileen, & Teri. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
The Catholic league will never be the same...nor will anyone who had the privilege of calling John Hoban Jr. friend.
I love you 'Hob"...
-- Keith Morris
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John Hoban was a great person and represented so many things to so many people.  He was the most loyal person in the world.  The amazing thing about John Hoban is that a lot of things he did in life were not done out loud (they were intimate).  I am positive that every person that he touched (and many people we will never know about) has a memory of John Hoban saying just the right thing to keep you on the path of life.  He saw things differently.  He was unique.  Just his existence gave me a feeling of safeness.  For me, John Hoban was the only thing on earth that made me feel close to my mom!  I did not need to talk to him.  Just being in the same room with him made me feel close to her.  Who knew a giant could be so gentle!!  I will miss you forever.
Amy Balcer – daughter of the late Eileen Hoban DiGiovanni
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  John Hoban was the consummate Cahillite.  He was always a great ambassador for Roman Catholic High School.  His competitiveness made him a great athlete, and his respect for his competitors made him a gentleman.
We will miss him.
-- John Fruncillo
Dir. of Institutional Advancement
RCHS
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  He was the best!! Things definitely will not be the same without him. It definitely will not be the same not seeing that purple jacket floating in and out of gyms or football fields.  And for me, that does not even mean Roman games.  John was just passionate about the entire league and would always go to other league games (Prep/Neum hoops, O'Hara/Prep football) and if I was scouting an opponent, I could always count on John and that purple jacket floating into the gym. He would have tendencies/strengths/weaknesses of opposing players before I even had a chance to take a look. I will miss him.
-- Chris McNesby
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  As I sit here trying to gather my thoughts, it still isn't hitting me that one of my favorite people in the world isn't here anymore. I've known Mr. Hob since I was a little kid. I have always known him and his family as great friends of our family and if you look up the word 'friend' in the dictionary, there should be a picture of John Hoban next to it.
  I can remember when my Dad was let go at La Salle. He was the first one at the house that night. I was still attending the university at the time, and had a year to go before I was going to graduate. Mr. Hob pulled me aside and asked me if I was going to be okay...he was worried that I would be the victim of ridicule for what had happened to my Dad. I will never, for as long as I live, forget that....but that is what Mr. Hob was all about...family and friends. I never had a bad time when I was with him. Whenever  I was around him I laughed a lot and had a great time. Just last week I saw him going into The Henry James. I was leaving...we exchanged quick hellos, talked briefly, and I left. Had I known that it would be the last time I was going to see him, I don't think I would have left at all, because I am having a hard time having to say goodbye to Mr. Hob. I would have pulled up a stool next to him, and had one more great time with him. I would have told him how much I love and appreciate him, and I would have thanked him for all of the great times.
  In closing, I want to tell Mary, the Girls, and the entire Hoban family that I love you all and you are all in my thoughts and prayers. The Morris family will always be here for you.
  To Mr. Hob...words can't express how much I am going to miss you. I will cherish all the laughter and great times we had together forever, and you will always hold a special place in my heart. I love you buddy...
-- Chris Morris
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  John Hoban was one of the best friends I have ever had. When you think of "H" the first word that comes to mind is loyalty. John was loyal to his school his friends and most of all his family. John was present at just about every Roman function. He bled purple and gold!!
If I needed someone to talk to he was always there.
 John was most proud of his wonderful family. John and his wife Mary did a fantastic job raising their four beautiful daughters. He loved his son-in-laws and his ten grandchildren. I respected him most for the family man he was. I will never lose touch with Mary, Mary-Ellen and Nickie, Katie and Flood, Eileen and Kevin, and Teri and Scott- I Love you all!
 John you were a great friend and I will truly miss you- I love you.
-- Dave Falcione
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John Hoban was one of my best friends. .  I always looked forward to going to the bar to hang out and talk Roman sports.  Waiting to hear his prediction for the big game, or hear some pearls of wisdom.  Having a few drinks and talking for hours about everything and anything.....riding to games together and telling each other what we thought we had to do to win.  He was right almost every time....  But he was also more than that.  He was family.   I cannot really express how much I'm going to miss you, John....I'm sorry that I didn't tell you how important you were to me.  How grateful I am that you and your entire family welcomed me as Uncle Smitty.  To Mary, Mary Ellen and Nicky, Eileen and Kevin, Katie and Floody and Terri and Scott and all the 10 grand kids, I love you all and am praying for you all.  Finally, John you were one of the best things to happen to Roman Catholic and truly, one of the best things that ever happened to me.
I love you and miss you.
-- Smitty
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  John Hoban will be greatly missed by the Roman Catholic family and the
Catholic League.  There was not a more passionate Roman supporter anywhere.
More importantly, John cared about Roman and the students of the school.  I
always enjoyed my conversations with John (often they took the form of
debates).  He did not have an opinion he was unwilling to share.  That was
John and I enjoyed that about him.  You always knew where he stood.  Roman
Catholic has lost some of its most loyal sons in the last few years: Ed
Graham, Charles Logan, Jim McSherry and now John.  They have set an example
of loyalty and giving back.  The greatest tribute to John and these men, is
for others to step up and become the next generation  willing to give back
and make sure the mission continues.  My heart and prayers go out to the
Hoban family.
-- Brother John Kane
La Salle University
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  John, I will miss your in-game and post-game analysis at the football and basketball games.
Boom jig a boom, boom jig a boom, boom jig a ric jig boom boom, sis boom bah, he hah hah,
Catholic High rah rah rah ! John that cheer was for you ! Rest in peace !
-- Dick Trotter '69
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  It has been a few days since Mr. Hobe passed and still I can't believe he is gone.
Words cannot express how I truly feel about one of the greatest human beings I
have ever met in my entire life.
 As a young man, I can remember the times my father would take us to Mr. Hobe's
parents house on Ridge Avenue.  You only needed to spend a few minutes with
them to realize why John Hoban Jr. turned out to be the special Role Model, Coach,
Father, and most importantly Friend that he was to everyone he came in contact
with.  He had a special way about him and you always knew that when he was
talking with you no matter what the topic his answer always came from his heart
and it was real. I'm a lot older now and nothing has changed.  Through my high
school and college years and now as an adult my relationship with Mr. Hobe has
only grown stronger.  I once heard him tell someone that me and my brothers were
like the sons he never had.  Just thinking about that compliment brings tears to my
eyes and I will never forget that for the rest of my life.
What I honestly enjoyed the most was watching him and my father together just talking
about old times.  Former players from Roman, current players, and simply sports in
general.  They had a special bond that will never be broken and I am just glad that I was
able to listen to John Hoban & Speedy Morris share the many memories they had together
over the years and I will never forget them.
As both of my brothers eluded to earlier "Hobe" was always the first person to call or to show
up at my home when there were tough times.  It gave me great joy to see him embrace not only
my parents but me and my brothers and sister the way he did.  Hobe's family is the same way
and that is why we share the special bond between our family that we have today.   Mrs. Hoban,
Maryellen & Nicky, Eileen & Kevin, Katie & Mike, and Terry & Scott my heart goes out to all of you
and I hope you know that the Morris family will always be here for you.
In closing, Mr. Hobe, thanks for your friendship, thanks for the memories, but most of all thanks for
being you.  I am a better person today for having had you in my life.  I love you, Pal.
-- Brian R. Morris
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I can’t imagine going to the first Roman football game in the fall and not seeing John Hoban!! He is irreplaceable.
-- Mike Rodden ‘77
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  I am having a difficult time writing this.  "Johnny Hobe", "Johnny H", "Hobe" "H". All of these nicknames describe one man. But to me, he was more than that. He was Uncle John-my godfather. My golf buddy. One of the men, along with my father and my late grandfather, who taught me the Roman Catholic tradition. John Hoban Jr. was SO many things to so many people. He was a loving husband to my aunt Mary for over 40 years. He was a great father to Eileen, Mary Ellen, Katie, and Terry. His 10 grandchildren were his joy.
        While his family was a major priority in his life, his "other" family was Roman Catholic High School. I have never met someone who felt so strong about the Purple and Gold and the mission of Thomas E. Cahill. Even in my toddler days, I remember my Dad taking me to Broad and Vine to watch Speedy's Cahillites during the 1970's when Uncle John was an assistant.  I guess this is where my love of Roman Basketball was born.  When I became a student at Roman and became involved with the program, I often asked Uncle John if I could bum a ride to the road games. Never did he say no.  Never was there a football game where Uncle John wasn't on the sidelines. He was a fixture with his binoculars on his neck.  He was always there to offer encouragement and support win or lose to both the players and the coaches.  I can honestly say that seeing Coach Seddon's squad lift the 2007 Catholic League Championship plaque was one of his happiest moments. I also was on the sidelines in 1999 when Roman captured the first Red Division championship and the first person I sought out was Uncle John. Tears were flowing freely from his eyes. You could just feel the joy in his heart and the emotion on his face.
        Uncle John's third love was the game of golf.  He first swung a golf club in my backyard at my First Communion party. He was hooked instantly. One time, when I was around 8 years old, he asked me, "Dan, how do you play out of the sandtraps?" Not thinking, I responded, "Well, I don't know Uncle John-I don't go in them very often!" He NEVER let me live that down for years and years.  His foursome often included Dave Falcione-one of his best friends, Dr. George Mecherly-the finest English teacher ever, and Pat McIntosh-his nephew. Before I got into the golf business, I would fill in. In my younger days, he would never take any greens fee money from me. Now I regret that I didn't get to play with "H" more often.  The last time we played golf together was Wednesday, June 20th. It was the last time that I saw him. When we were on the 1st Tee, Uncle John quipped, "Alright, no excuses-time to play." He was referring to the fact that I was returning from hand surgery and it was the first time in a month where I could play. I was so proud of him that day. He played very well and I was excited for him. "Hobe" always had a way of putting you in your place or setting you straight. Most of the time, it was deserved.
         Now, I sit here in my office filled with memories and tears.  Uncle John's truck was the first one I would look for when I went in to the Henry James with my wife Nonee.  He was the first person I would look for before any Roman football or basketball game. When I was fortunate enough to announce this year's PCL Finals at the Palestra, Uncle John was the first person that I sought for advice.  When I was fortunate enough to be inducted into the RCHS Sports Hall of Fame, he was in the front doing nothing but smiling. I will remember that smile for the rest of my living days. Uncle John, I can't even begin to express how much that I love you and will miss you forever. I will continue supporting Roman in any way I can. Rest assured that I will do anything in my power to help Aunt Mary, Eileen, Mary Ellen, Katie, and Terry get through this. Your legacy lives on through your 10 wonderful grandchildren. It is an honor to call you Uncle John, my godfather, my golf partner, my fellow SHOF member, and most of all- a true friend in every sense of the word. May God Bless You and give you peace.
Rest in Peace #47  "15 tackles a game"
-- Dan Hoban Jr. '92
nephew of John Hoban Jr.
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   Life, as I know it, is forever changed for me as well as numerous family members and countless friends. We lost a great man, too soon.  John Hoban (H) was one of a kind; devoted, caring, loyal, loving husband, family man, friend, a man's man, Roman fanatic, Roman Hall of Famer, handsome, athlete (#47) & a much better golfer than Dave Falcione & myself.  He will sorely be missed but never forgotten. Death is such a part of life and it hurts. I take some solace in knowing he had a great life, as he would always tell me the reason for that was his loving wife Mary, his four loving daughters & their husbands, Mary Ellen & Nicky, Katie & Flood, Eileen & Kevin, Terri & Scott, all his beautiful grandkids & the rest of his loving family &  friends. H would often say anyone who doesn't like this life is CRAZY. I feel extremely thankful and lucky for the time I got to spend with him; I wish it didn't have to end.  He was much more than an Uncle to me, he was my buddy, someone I admired, respected & loved.  He will remain in my heart & prayers forever. I am proud & grateful to be part of the Hoban family. As I sit here writing, I can see him reading all the nice tributes, looking down, pointing at himself and saying that’s me, H.  Uncle John (H), I will always remember the great times I shared with you, I love you and I will miss you immensely.
-- Patrick McIntosh
PS:  As Big Joe Flaherty & Frank Sinatra would say about him, " 'H' did it his way!"
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  I first met Coach Hoban in 1970 when he was an assistant coach to one of my Idols Coach Speedy Morris. Mr. Hoban was inspecting the new troops in the incoming Freshman class for Football and I was one of them. I was secretly hoping he was looking for a possible player from our fold to maybe be a part of the Greatest Basketball Program in the city--in my opinion--that is when I found out who he was as an athlete at the Catholic High.
  Through the years he would come to our practices and meet in the stands with his father in front of the old announcers booth at Cahill Field. We were a part of a new beginning under Coach Little and John and his father were there almost on a daily basis.
  I had gone on and graduated joined the Navy and returned as an assistant coach under Bob Wagner and that is where I got to know John Hoban better. We added new life to the school by finally righting a listing ship. We had plenty to cheer about in those days and the atmosphere at Speedy's Drop in the Bucket was truly electric and an unforgettable part of my life. He told me after some of those years that he thought I was a really good coach and that I prepared my kids well. That was, to me, a confirmation of where I stood with John. As an accepted peer. We were able to discuss football on each of our terms and not just his. I will forever be grateful to John for allowing the opportunity for healthy discussion and debate on the sport I was so passionate about. GOD BLESS YOU JOHN HOBAN and YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY REST IN PEACE>
-- Michael J Gibbons '74 RCHS
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  On behalf of the West Catholic Boys Basketball Family, We send our prayers and deepest condolences to the Hoban Family on the passing of their loved one, John. There has never been a man who has worn the purple and gold with more pride and passion than John Hoban !!!!! What makes the Philadelphia Catholic League so special is the people. The people and the relationships are the foundation our league was built upon. John was a cornerstone in that foundation. He was a mentor, a coach and a Father figure to four decades of Roman Catholic student athletes. John was the Catholic Leagues number # 1 ambassador. As men of the Catholic faith we believe John has come Home, and is at peace with the Lord, selfishly we all feel it was far to soon. There will be an emptiness this year when we play Roman without John's presence, but I know he'll be there in spirit. Those of us around the league who knew John Hoban were fortunate; those of us he called friends were blessed.
-- Billy Ludlow    W.C.B.B.
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  My condolences go out the entire Hoban family, their friends, and the RCHS community.
  Before going into the Palestra, I walked over Mr. Hoban’s car and started talking to him and Smitty about the importance of the CL  Basketball Title and winning this year.   Little that I know, it would be Mr. Hoban’s last title game.
  We got along very well.  We both loved Roman Basketball and we both hated the prep!
  I never got the chance to thank him for his undying loyalty to Roman, for his support of the basketball program and for his ear when I needed to vent.  He was a great role model and will be sorely missed!         
-- Cous
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  Reading through the postings in this tribute and on the philly.com website as well as conversations with many people is a true testimonial to the person “Hobs” was and will continue to be in another place.  Everybody has pretty much covered all the bases on “Hobs” … he was a great guy.  I met Mr. Hobs when I was a freshmen basketball player for Roman Catholic back in 1989 and got to know him and his family better as the years went on.  “Hobs” was always around … games … practices … whatever function he was usually there if it involved Roman Catholic.  As the years went on we developed a friendship that was nurtured through our love for Roman Catholic High School.  It was always nice to share that bond with Hobs and many others.  As it has been stated many times … nobody revered R.C.H.S. more than Hobs.  I couldn’t help but laugh when reading Ted’s article the other day when Speedy was taking about “Hobs” hatred of Prep.  I can remember being at a Prep basketball game versus O’Hara about 3 years ago and Hobs walked in and was walking by me and I said … “Yo Hobs” … he was like “hey Paul … what are you rooting for these guys now”.  I almost felt like a traitor.  I just started laughing.  The funny thing about the story is that we were both there for the same reason … to support our good friend Speedy. “Hobs” was a loyal guy and no matter how much it pissed him off that Speedy was coaching at Prep he would always support his friend.  I can recall several times after that being at Prep games and looking around and seeing Hobs somewhere in the gym.  I think it’s going to be habit for me to take a peek every time I’m at a Catholic League game and see if Hobs is there … especially Roman games.  “Hobs” legacy is strong and will live on through his family and friends for many years to come.  The last time I saw “Hobs” was when we celebrated Roman’s victory over Neumann at the Henry James Saloon.  Had I known this would be my last encounter with him I would have stayed a few more hours, talked some more B-Ball, of course had a few beers and told him how much I appreciated getting to know him over the years.  “Hobs” … you will never be forgotten.  Next beer is on me buddy … CHEERS.
-- Paul McManus . . . R.C.H.S '93
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  We lost one of the great ones with the passing of John Hoban this past week. I had the privilege of knowing Mr. Hoban through attending Roman Catholic sporting events before, during, and after my tenure as a student, and through working at the Henry James Saloon. Mr. Hobe was a giant, a great man. My fondest memory of Mr. Hoban came at the Henry James after his youngest daughter's wedding a few months ago. The family had come back after the reception and I had stayed later than usual. When I was about to leave, I approached Mr. Hoban and said "Congratulation, Mr. Hobe!" and reached out to shake his hand. He looked at me with his glazed eyes and pulled me in and hugged me and said, "I love you, kid, I love you" and kissed me on the neck. I laughed and replied, "I love you, too, Mr. Hobe." I will always remember that night and those words when I think of Mr. Hoban. He loved his family and friends more than anything, and was able to leave an indelible mark on the kid who went to Roman and worked at the bar.
-- Mike Rodden, '05
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  My memories of John Hoban are exactly the sum of all the tributes that have been
posted in the last couple days. It was very difficult to read them because I
couldn't keep my eyes dry. He was the best of the best, and that is a complete
understatement. I cant imagine us playing without John being there. To
Mary, and daughters, hang in there the best you can, and
realize that although he left you a little earlier than expected, no girls
anywhere, ever, had a better man in their life, and that is a great thing. God
bless the Hoban family.
-- Pat McKee
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  I was on a family holiday in Ireland when I heard the sad news of John Hoban's passing.  I can only say that I felt the shock and pain
3000 miles away and send my heartfelt sympathy and prayers to the wonderful Hoban family.   They have touched my family and I
Many times over the years.  Tomorrow at Brittingham's Irish Pub I will certainly raise a glass and toast the man who loved Roman
Catholic so well.  As a North Catholic Grad and supporter John was always there with a joke or a jab against my Falcons but he also
Showed me how a man should support the things he loves whether it be family, a friend or an alma mater.  For that, I am eternally
grateful and we will sing his song; "When New York was Irish", with all the passion John showed during his brilliant life.
God Bless his Memory
Paul Moore & Family
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  My memories of John Hoban start nearly fifty years ago when I was nine years old and John was a senior at Roman and I was a big Roman fan.  Although best known as an All-Catholic football player, my memories of John are as a scrappy starter on the 58-59 Roman basketball team.  My uncle, Fran McMenamin, was John’s coach and I was very fortunate that he took me to quite a few games.  I also remember my uncle telling me what an outstanding football player John was.  I remember the character of that 58-59 basketball team typified by John and of seeing them play in a special playoff with Dougherty at Lincoln High for the final playoff spot which Roman lost after star Bobby Kahana was injured and could not finish the game.  I’m not sure if John played a spring sport so that night I remember may have been his last time in a Catholic High uniform.  I always remembered John for his hustling play.  In later years, as I became a PCL football coach, athletic director, football chairman, and president of the PCL Board of Directors, I saw John quite frequently at league games and playoffs.  We always talked about the particular game that night, his days at Roman and my uncle.  I always looked forward to seeing him always knowing that he would be there no matter who was playing but especially happy if Roman was playing.  One night I will never forget was in the Fall of ’99 when Roman Catholic won the first PCL Red Division football championship.  They beat LaSalle that night but the previous week had beaten the Prep in the semi-final.  As the celebration started to calm down, I found myself standing on the field at Northeast with John.  I remember that he looked at me and said, “This is so great and special, Roman winning the PCL title and beating the Prep twice in one year!”  John Hoban never changed – my memories of him are the same whether I was 9 or now at 58.  To me, John Hoban typified the spirit and values of the Catholic League and Roman Catholic High School.  I pray that he rests in peace with God eternally.
-- Chuck Knowles
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  I first met Mr. Hoban when I would go down to the Henry James with my Dad to help clean up on Saturday mornings after a busy Friday night.  Mr. Hoban would always come in with his 7-Eleven coffee to re-hash the previous night with my Dad and to talk about the latest happenings in Catholic League Sports.  When I decided to attend Roman, I remember how happy Mr. Hoban was to see that his friend's son would be attending Catholic High.  When I was playing football or helping out the basketball team, he would always hit me up for "inside info" whenever he saw me.  He was a die-hard fan of Philly high school sports, and genuinely cared about all of the athletes.  More than the actual game itself, I think he enjoyed watching the young athletes excel, overcome adversity, and mature into fine young men, while carrying on the Catholic League tradition.  Mr. Hoban's tremendous love for Roman was evident this past football season when Roman defeated LaSalle 27-21 in double overtime.  He was on the sideline at the end of the game jumping up and down with both arms in the air, triumphant in victory.  He was smiling from ear to ear, and had a tear in his eye.  It was like he was a kid again.  Mr. Hoban embodied what the Catholic League and what high school sports should all be about.
  I had the pleasure of going down to Cumberland MD with Roman's basketball team and some of the alumni this past year.  Mr. Hoban, Smitty and Mr. Flaherty convinced myself and Chuck Thompson (aka Puff) to come down and experience the tournament as alums (of legal drinking age).  I came to realize, over the long weekend, that Mr. Hoban had made many lifelong friends in the Cumberland area, and when tournament time came around they all bent over backwards to make sure that their friend "H", his wife Mary, and his buddies from Catholic High had a great time.  I was bartending the Wednesday before he passed when Mr. Hoban came in with his nephew Pat, after Philly U's Golf Outing.  I told Mr. Hoban what a good time I had with him down in Cumberland, and how excited I was at the possibility of going down again this coming season to watch the Cahillites defend their title.  They closed down the bar, and as usual, they argued over the bar tab.  Mr. Hoban got Pat for the last round of drinks, which Pat can't stand, so Pat insisted on another round.  I didn't mind hanging out with them a little longer because I enjoyed their company.  As they were leaving, I told them both that we all needed have a few drinks when I'm not working, and that I was looking forward to my parents' 4th of July party, so we could all have fun and throw a few back.  Unfortunately, I was never able to have another opportunity to hang out with Mr. Hoban after that, as he went into the hospital the following Monday.
  Although he was 40 years my senior, Mr. Hoban treated me as his friend, and I am proud to say that he was my friend.  Over the years he incorporated my family into his own, and we will always be there for his wife Mary, his four daughters (Mary Ellen, Eileen, Katie, and Terry), their husbands (Nicky, Kevin, Flood, and Scott), and their children.  We'll miss him, and try our best to carry on without him.
  Mr. Hoban went out on top.  He lived each day like it was his last, and touched so many lives along the way.
  Thanks for everything Mr. Hobe, I'll miss you.
-- Dan Falcione, '01
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  I am not so lucky to have known Mr. Hoban for as long as most of the people who have posted tributes here.  That said, a man like John Hoban didn't need a lifetime to make his impression.  I first met Mr. Hoban when my (now) husband was on the Roman Football staff during the 1999 season, which is to say that we spent a lot of weekends celebrating at the Henry James as his alma mater won their 1st Championship in over 50 years.  Although Mike didn't coach at Roman after that year, the Cahillites were always on his mind and in his heart, which led us to the day that Mr. Hoban showed me what an exceptional man he was.
  We were on our way to watch my cousin play a football game at Princeton University, and Mike asked if we could just "drive by" Roxborough High to check the score of the Roman-Valley Forge football game.  We pulled up outside the field, and Mike went to the fence to check out the scoreboard.  Mr. Hoban was there and the two of them got to talking.  Twenty minutes later, I decided to get out of the car and remind Mike that we had to get on the road or we would miss the game.  As I said hello to Mr. Hoban I heard a horrible crash.  I turned around and saw our car was on the sidewalk, having been crashed into by a drunk driver.  Needless to say, we thought our night had been ruined (and could only hope that our car wasn't)  Mr. Hoban (and many other members of the Roman family) helped us sort through the mess of filing a police report and getting our car towed.  When all was said and done, and it came time to figure out how the heck we were going to get home, Mr. Hoban stepped right up and said "Hey, you kids want to drop me off at home and take my car up to the game?"  We couldn't accept his unbelievably generous offer, but Mr. Hoban wouldn't hear of us not getting to that game...if he didn't have other plans, I'm sure he would have taken us there himself!  In the end, he wound up driving us to my mother's house in the Far Northeast, letting me buy him a cup of coffee, being genuinely insulted when I asked him if I could put gas in his car and sending along good luck wishes to my cousin in his game.
  Reading all of the tributes above, I know that there are tons of people that would have been happy to have had the pleasure of John Hoban's company that night.  I know there has to have been somewhere he would have rather been, but he never thought twice about going out of his way to help us.  I know that I learned something that night about how giving a little of yourself can make a big difference for someone else.  If even 1/10 of the people who Mr. Hoban touched took that same lesson away, then the world would be a better place.
-- Megan Gallagher
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   My deepest sympathy goes out to the family and friends of Mr. Hoban. Unlike many of the people who left their contributions here I did not know Mr. Hoban nearly as long and surely not as well. However, I was influenced greatly over the years I did know him. Although we are from the same neighborhood I did not meet Mr. Hoban until 1998, my freshman year at Roman Catholic. During my years there I learned to admire his loyalty and dedication to his high school. I see that many people have written memories of the 1999 football season and what a memorable time it was for Mr. Hoban and the Roman Catholic community. During that time many Roman Catholic alums were proud to show off their purple and gold colors. However the years following were not as successful and much of the support shown in 1999 diminished. I even think my mom turned her back on the team my senior year, but not Mr. Hoban. Mr. Hoban always encouraged us to give it our best effort. We knew we had to play hard for him because he was not going to quit on us.  When I graduated in 2002 I was happy I had the opportunity to befriend Mr. Hoban but I assumed with the generation gap and me moving on to college that the relationship we had would fade. That was not the case. When my mom would go to the Henry James, she would come home and tell me that Mr. Hoban was asking about me. I used to ask her how she knew him because I knew that she did not know him previous to me attending Roman Catholic High. Every now and then I would come back to the neighborhood from college and eat breakfast at the Domino Diner. It seemed like Mr. Hoban was always there. He would always ask me how I was doing and would wish me luck on my future endeavors. The final time I saw Mr. Hoban was at my college graduation party. I could see he was happy that I graduated. Like always he encouraged me to achieve all my goals. After talking to him, I really got the feeling like he was family. When my mom called me at work and told me that Mr. Hoban has passed it dawned on me. Mr. Hoban and I were family; we are brothers in the Roman Catholic High family. I believe the relationships he built throughout his life is his greatest legacy. He was able to transcend age and build relationships with so many of us kids. Although Mr. Hoban was in his late 50’s and early 60’s when I knew him and I in my teens and early 20’s I truly considered him one of my buddies. I will miss him dearly.
-- Ryan Brody ‘02
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  I had the great pleasure of getting to know John Hoban during our time at the Alhambra Tournament couple of years ago.  I have always called myself a huge Catholic League fan and loved hearing John talk about players and games from the past.  However, I was blown away one night when John began singing the alma mater of EVERY Catholic League School.  Naturally, he started with Roman's and then Hallahan's.  I figured he picked up Neumann's because of the rivalry that had developed.  But when he asked me where did I go to school and I said "Judge", John started belting out "Red and Blue On High".  I was stunned.  John then went through the rest of the league and with each song I was rolling.  Next year the Catholic League just won't be the same and it has nothing to do with their entry into the PIAA.  It will be because John Hoban won't be there.  God bless, John.
-- Ed Cubbage
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To the Hoban Family,
    Sharon and I would like to say how much we will miss Mr. Hoban.  Each day since his passing we say how hard it is to believe he is no longer with us.  Looking out the window onto Sumac Street will never be the same.  We both keep waiting to see him pull up with his 7-Eleven coffee and Daily News, walking Bogey down street or just sitting out front listening to a Phillies game.  There are so many good memories with Mr. Hoban but what we will miss the most is just being able to talk with him out front of the house. I will miss talking about his day of golf, or what he did last night or how he needed to slow down after spending three straight nights at the Henry James. One of our best memories was the Jimmy Buffet concert 2 years ago when "H" and Mrs. Hoban joined us at Citizens Bank Park.  It was a great time.  We have looked at those and many other pictures lately remembering a great person.  I was honored to be a pallbearer at his funeral considering how many family friends Mr. Hoban had. It was a beautiful service and a true reminder of how many people's lives were touched by Mr. Hoban.  I know that at mass we were reminded that "H" is in a better place but in our hearts Sharon and I can't help but think that a better place for him would still be here with us.  We loved him very much and will never forget him.
-- The DeAngelis Family
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The Roman Catholic High Community lost a WONDERFUL friend and supporter when the Lord called John home.  When we transferred our son Meat to Roman and he was not allowed to play varsity football in his Junior year, John was there to offer our family support and encouragement.  We didn't know John but he became a great friend.  He was always there for our boys and for all the boys at Roman.  Our sons', Meat and Chop, always looked to John for his advice and guidance.  We were all glad that we were able to share in the joy John had expressed when Roman's Football Team won the Catholic League Championship in 1999.  John always cheered the hardest and the loudest no matter the sport.  It was an honor to sit with him at the Henry James and share a drink or at a football game talking strategy.  We know that John is sitting at the right hand of God with his Purple and Gold shaker whispering in God's ear to watch over and bless the Roman Community.  We wish to send to John's wife, his beautiful daughters and their families our deepest sympathy. We are truly sad that we were out of town and did not learn of John's passing until we were in the Henry James the night of his burial.  Attending the football games this year will not be the same without the smiling face of John Hoban greeting everyone as they enter the stadium.  We will miss you dearly.
-- The Meat/Chop Family
Tony, Meat, Chop and Debbie Chomiszewski
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  It is with great sadness that I write this.
  Unlike most of the other people on this page, I didn't really get to know Mr, John Hoban very well personally, except for seeing him at mostly every Cahillite sporting event I attended over the years.  But what he stood for, the type of person and man he was will never be lost on me.  As a fellow alumnus, SHOF member and current faculty member and coach, Mr. Hoban will forever be THE example and inspiration as to what being a Cahillite is all about.  His passion, loyalty, respect for the Purple and Gold and unabashed pride is what all of us who are left behind need to remember.
  Like I said, I didn't know him very well, but he always was a man I felt I needed to impress whenever I wore the colors of our school.  To be the type of ambassador he was to the school is what we can all do to honor his memory.
  My sympathy and support goes to the entire Hoban family, especially to Danny and Tim.  Hang in there guys.  His legacy will live on forever at Broad and Vine.
Sincerely,
-- Joe Tremoglie
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Ted, your article captured Mr. Hob to the T. Roman Catholic, The Catholic League, and Roxborough lost a friend. I have known Mr. Hob for over 30 years and he was everything that you would want in a friend. He was honest, loyal, and he knew how to make you laugh. And even though I was a Prepper he never held it against me. I can't tell you how many good times I had with Mr. Hob at The Henry James Saloon after a La Salle U, Prep, or Roman basketball game. A tradtion that started a couple of years ago, is that after Roman and Prep basketball games, no matter who won, every body  went back to The Henry James for some laughs and Mr. Hob was usually head comic. I am glad Mr. Hoban got to see his beloved Cahillites win another Catholic League and Alhambra Championship.
To his family you are in my thoughts and prayers but remember he will never die as long as we carry him in our hearts.
-- John Coppinger
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